One of the first qualities to develop to become a good leader is integrity. When this quality guides your actions, you inspire trust among your team members and adopt a responsible leadership approach. It’s a great first step toward ensuring your success and that of your team.
According to the definition of integrity provided by the Centre National de Ressources Textuelles et Lexicales in France, it is described as “the character or quality of a person who is incorruptible, whose conduct and actions are irreproachable.”
This definition may feel a bit intense, but it provides an aspirational goal and a guiding principle for daily decision-making. The aim isn’t to become perfect but to ensure that our decisions are rooted in moral and ethical principles.
“Look for three things in a person: intelligence, energy, and integrity. If they don’t have the last one, don’t even bother with the first two.”
– Warren Buffett, Businessman
This quote speaks volumes about the importance of integrity in every sphere of life. If someone with a track record as impressive as Warren Buffett places integrity as the foremost quality to seek in collaborators, it’s worth taking a few moments to understand why integrity sits at the top of his list.
Integrity enables:
- Building trust-based relationships
- Gaining credibility
- Improving your reputation
- Allowing leaders to stay aligned with their values
- Ensuring ethical decision-making
- Fostering a positive environment
- Increasing resilience
- Strengthening conflict management approaches
- Empowering leaders to promote accountability
As evident from the above list, many essential aspects of management are influenced by being a person of integrity. This makes it clear why Warren Buffett identifies integrity as the most crucial quality to look for in colleagues, superiors, or team members.
Building Trust-Based Relationships
To become a good leader in your workplace or community, those you influence must trust you. If people perceive you as a person of integrity, they will also view you as honest and reliable.
Your collaborators will know they can confide in you, and you will safeguard sensitive and personal information rather than using it as leverage to trap them later.
As a person of integrity, you won’t show favoritism and will treat every member of your team fairly. This impartial approach strengthens trust even further.
While it’s natural to have collaborators you prefer working with (this is human nature), maintaining a neutral attitude and keeping your preferences private will help you preserve the trust of others.
This trust becomes a powerful lever for communicating your expectations and transferring responsibilities to your employees, who will be more inclined to follow your lead in achieving shared goals.
Gaining Credibility
When those around you know you are a person of integrity, they recognize your consistency between words and actions. A person of integrity says what they do and does what they say.
This trait will greatly assist you in managing changes you may want to implement within your team. Typically, people are hesitant to change their ways because stepping out of their comfort zone is daunting. They fear the unknown outcomes of new actions, which is why they often stick to old habits, even when they know it’s not the best way to achieve goals.
When you approach them with new ideas, being perceived as reliable, honest, and credible will help alleviate their fears and positively influence their opinions about the new methodology.
This will save you significant time and effort.
Improving Your Reputation
Let go of the desire to be liked by everyone—it’s impossible and unnecessary. A person of integrity doesn’t automatically side with the majority just to avoid conflict. Instead, they make decisions based on what is right rather than what is convenient or popular. A person of integrity listens to their inner voice, which allows them to remain at peace with their choices and positions.
Sometimes, the majority may be wrong…
Or you may be wrong…
Regardless of who is right or wrong, an integrity-driven approach based on moral and ethical principles will positively strengthen your reputation.
An example from my time as a warehouse manager illustrates this point. During my first conversation with a new employee, he admitted he was apprehensive because I had a reputation for being “by the book.” He even thought I would reject his vacation requests, even if his supervisor approved them.
Wow!
Was I a monster?
Where did this negative perception come from?
Though I had never spoken to this person before, he had already recognized my rigorous management style, which actually pleased me. While I was happy that my reputation preceded me, I took a moment to explain my approach and reassure him of my fair, supportive intentions, combined with my expectations of responsible and ethical behavior.
It was essential to correct his misunderstanding of my management style to earn his trust and ensure a positive collaboration.
Rigor does not mean rigidity.
Staying Aligned with Your Values
What happens when your actions don’t align with your values?
You might feel uneasy, struggle to sleep or eat, lose motivation, or worry that everyone around you sees your inconsistency.
Adopting an integrity-driven approach minimizes or eliminates these undesirable symptoms. Acting with integrity also soothes your mind, as your actions align with your values and principles. This alignment brings inner peace and a deep sense of satisfaction regarding how you pursue your goals.
A recent experience of mine serves as an example. I was invited to join a business development group. Throughout the presentation about their approach to achieving financial freedom, I felt uneasy, even queasy, at the thought of following their suggested path to relieve my financial burdens. Although the approach was entirely legal and ethical, it didn’t align with my values or principles, so I declined. Instant relief!
A side note: I had also feared disappointing the person recruiting me and resisting his insistence.
Unnecessary stress—none of this happened.
I occasionally forget, despite telling everyone around me, that I am the captain of my destiny and decide what is best for myself, my family, my career, and my life.
Ensuring Ethical Decision-Making
As a leader or manager, especially in mid-level roles like supervisor or manager, you’ll face external pressures from both superiors and employees. In challenging situations or to avoid financial losses, others might ask you to bend certain rules to serve personal or short-term interests, sometimes at the expense of ethics.
It’s vital to resist these temptations or threats and maintain a clear moral direction.
You are ultimately responsible for the actions of your team members, and regardless of external pressures, you must own the approach taken.
To minimize conflicts, take the time to explain to stakeholders why you cannot deviate from your decision. This transparency, combined with your willingness to assume responsibility of your decisions, will reinforce the ethical foundation of your choices.
Fostering a Positive Environment
Conclusion ~ Warren Buffett
To close the loop on integrity, this chapter ends as it began: with words from Warren Buffett, as quoted in Les Affaires magazine on December 9, 2022.
Warren Buffett famously told employees of Salomon Brothers when he took over the company in 1991:
“Lose money for the firm, and I will be understanding. Lose a shred of its reputation, and I will be ruthless.”
He later suggested the following guide for making tough decisions:
“If you’d be comfortable having your actions published on the front page of a newspaper where your family and friends would read them, then go ahead without hesitation.”
Discover the 5 Must-Ask Questions for Happy Teams
Do you want to better understand what motivates your team members and could help you create a happy team? My practical guide, 5 Must-Ask Questions for Happy Teams, is designed to provide you with simple and effective tools to:
- Create a climate of trust within your team
- Identify the true needs and aspirations of your employees
- Encourage meaningful conversations that foster collaboration
- Boost engagement and collective performance
- Anticipate and resolve challenges before they become obstacles
Carl-Michael Tessier
Coach in high-performance team development and tailor-made support
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